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How to flirt in an anonymous chat: 10 opening lines that make people smile

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In an anonymous chat you have a line or two to catch someone’s interest, so “hi, how are you” rarely works. A good flirty opening is a light game, not a compliment on looks the other person cannot see. Here are 10 lines to start with:

  1. “Hi. Three words about yourself, and I’ll guess what kind of person you are.”
  2. “If tonight were a movie, what genre would it be?”
  3. “Confess: are you here for a conversation or an adventure?”
  4. “I like people who can surprise me. Surprise me with your first line.”
  5. “Say something that will make me smile.”
  6. “Late-night talk or morning coffee: which are you better at?”
  7. “No clichés: what’s the boldest thing you’ve done this month?”
  8. “Tricky question: tea, coffee or something stronger?”
  9. “Shall we play? I write two truths and one lie, you guess.”
  10. “I need a partner with a sense of humor. Are you up for it?”

What to avoid: asking for photos, jumping straight to intimate topics and sending the same message to everyone. People sense a template, and the conversation ends with a press of “Next”. Adapt to the answers: if the person replies briefly, tone it down; if they joke back, keep going.

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